"You're wishin' too much, baby. You gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone oughta be.”
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update (esp. for ming:p)/

hai j enric really exaggerated the certainty of the trip. it really sounded as if they were going off regardless and leaving me alone here. luckily i spoke to d es about it. HAHA. here's the update from ytd: i was really angry at him ytd for not even consulting me but i did what you said and was nice like usual towards him (anyway my anger usually cannot last overnight one). i didn't even raise the issue at all but he brought it up anyway and told me that he thought i would be shagged after my assessment center so he wanted to wait till the weekend to discuss it together with j enric. yup. in my defense, j ens really really made it sound as if the plans were like 100% firmed up already and they were going regardless of whether i went or not! but according to d es, it's only like, 30% firmed up and he doesn't wana go with just her alone.

so lesson learnt: don't raise your blood pressure and be angry/sad for nothing till you hear both sides of the story. haa haa. something we all know from young but man, never did i realise how hard it was to practise.