"You're wishin' too much, baby. You gotta stop wearing your wishbone where your backbone oughta be.”
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spoke to jens and i feel much better. anyway, she gave me an update on her life and i am so proud and happy for her! she's always ready to go out there and do things, while i'm the one who's always more cautious - thinking more and doing less... but this july she really had a breakthrough when she put it all out (actually it was quite good that she didn't come to me for advice because i being my scaredy-cat self would dissuade her against doing it) but she did it, and she did it again last week and look where she is now :)) though everything is not certain yet but i can honestly say that if she didn't do anything, NOTHING would have changed. she is doing things and going places where, i don't know, i used to talk about doing with her, but along the way i've lost direction. now she can be my motivation and i'm so proud of her! go go girl :)